tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-150070602024-03-07T03:13:12.803-05:00Five Feet Above Watertreadings and musings on the things that keep me afloat~ poetry, food, drink, and anything else that swims byCarlyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07418956848321901824noreply@blogger.comBlogger430125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15007060.post-73074875454119094042009-03-10T12:31:00.003-04:002009-03-10T12:32:43.197-04:00Reason #444 Why I Heart South Slope<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg7GeGb3CZj4viYydZwtzNBJ7YNImEGK_EbQ78xoBaPhbDvQf8tJc3rSTTrmXG1e75fbUruD9utib3TSANJ5PZ9_aRN1UyogutsAEY1den4gZQEoWQC6Uvw2Eyt5mCU9n6uA81F/s1600-h/country+crack.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 300px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg7GeGb3CZj4viYydZwtzNBJ7YNImEGK_EbQ78xoBaPhbDvQf8tJc3rSTTrmXG1e75fbUruD9utib3TSANJ5PZ9_aRN1UyogutsAEY1den4gZQEoWQC6Uvw2Eyt5mCU9n6uA81F/s400/country+crack.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5311597841293121058" /></a><br />Grocery Store typos!<div><br /></div><div><br /></div>Carlyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07418956848321901824noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15007060.post-64854146756321667622009-02-28T12:30:00.002-05:002009-03-03T14:51:16.670-05:00The New Chair<div><br /></div><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhK8P94b7I-3dM5BHmbf6RSMZ4ZaOMM9-YDs5hY14zQ176PsiXPU6zTF_5EcmKGDILRY5z-AlQVsdgH-mxBpB31KvXfuUX0gpisBjBGMebU7pkXhr4ZiUxXgzV-sRlcVRPoXYe1/s1600-h/new+chair.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 300px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhK8P94b7I-3dM5BHmbf6RSMZ4ZaOMM9-YDs5hY14zQ176PsiXPU6zTF_5EcmKGDILRY5z-AlQVsdgH-mxBpB31KvXfuUX0gpisBjBGMebU7pkXhr4ZiUxXgzV-sRlcVRPoXYe1/s400/new+chair.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5307902150345213890" /></a><br /><div>Things are coming along at home minus the no heat for the weekend and staying in the hotel and having a Sex and the City Carrie Bradshaw moment---me typing away in bed before my bar shift working on writing projects. But this is the new Parker sleeper chair so over night guests, come one, come all, I promise, there will be heat...</div><div><br /></div><div>It won't be as Kimpton luxury living, but I do make a mean banana bread for breakfast, and yes, there will be bourbon.</div><div><br /></div><div>I'm in the long haul of bartending before I leave for Kripalu so I may be more silent than usual here, but make sure to visit my twin, Ms. Gin.</div>Carlyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07418956848321901824noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15007060.post-70493466450131117212009-02-25T16:56:00.002-05:002009-02-25T16:58:10.343-05:00Why I Heart Being a BartenderReason number 358---<a href="http://nymag.com/arts/popmusic/features/54627/">you can get invited to the guest list for shows!</a><div><br /></div><div>I used to think I was part of the underbelly of society by my said profession, but really, it's the opposite. We bartenders like our music!</div>Carlyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07418956848321901824noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15007060.post-75532843937598031112009-02-24T11:11:00.003-05:002009-02-24T11:14:58.303-05:00Hello, Ms. GinFor a while I've been thinking about starting a bar/bourbon blog. And now, welcome to the marriage of my writing and my tending. Hello, <a href="http://bathtub-gin.blogspot.com/">Ms. Gin! Cheers to you and you and you...</a>Carlyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07418956848321901824noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15007060.post-20810291026756415422009-02-23T12:02:00.003-05:002009-02-23T12:10:32.155-05:00Hava NegilahYesterday evening a man with an accordian was playing Hava Negilah in the Herald Square subway station. Reason number #376 to heart New York. The whole day yesterday was a fall in love in the city day. It began with Alicia's Ostriker's Midrash workshop which I had resisted and resisted for so long. I always got the emails but never went. She really opened up a poem I was trying to work on about my cousin. <div><br /></div><div>Before the workshop Amy and I had Murray's bagels and afterwards, vintage clothing shopping where I scored a $15 purple dress and now that I think about it, I will call this the Meredith dress since I found it right after working on a poem.</div><div><br /></div><div>And I get to wear the dress to <a href="http://www.peguclub.com/flash/">Pegu</a> later this week!</div>Carlyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07418956848321901824noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15007060.post-26738659968017028642009-02-19T11:54:00.005-05:002009-02-19T12:14:40.232-05:00Post 30, it's curtains, curtains for you (me)<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjn3hRcFvKAaBY2_Q2XDbfwZI7aD-JeWnEWp84BLWK8EOJOPWSB6Bf5beXG9QNhI4VfU2ULH6pQgx_tU3QfSxSq9LkGvppFfMxNPkjM4oE4SJuS_oEosVn60VGYfq4IOWbrfZnw/s1600-h/curtains.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjn3hRcFvKAaBY2_Q2XDbfwZI7aD-JeWnEWp84BLWK8EOJOPWSB6Bf5beXG9QNhI4VfU2ULH6pQgx_tU3QfSxSq9LkGvppFfMxNPkjM4oE4SJuS_oEosVn60VGYfq4IOWbrfZnw/s400/curtains.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5304558040435268850" /></a><br />I both do and do not feel different. Perhaps I did party it up like a 21 year old for my 30th, but who wouldn't do that at AWP? According to <a href="http://poetrymidwest.blogspot.com/2009/02/awp-update-continuation-of-schmooze.html">Mr. Schmooze</a>, my party was slammin! However, everyone was out of my room by 1 am and there was no late night pizza order and so, no, this wasn't my 21st birthday. And that night, only two bourbons for me and for the most part, the entire conference was pretty moderate in terms of drinking and staying up late. I even made it to the gym one morning.<div><br /></div><div>I'm grateful for having an early panel. As unexcited I was about 9 am, many people showed up and were lively (and it wasn't just b/c Alicia got loud). My co-panels had a lot to say about identity, religion, and culture. I feel very fortunate to have such amazing women in my corner so thank you Eve, Idra, Sharon, and Erika. And to all those fab poets, both Jewish and not, this was one of my favorite AWP's. Meeting Meredith Hall and attending her panel about grant and essay writing changed how I think about applying for fellowships and conferences. (envelope for bread loaf, ready!).</div><div><br /></div><div>Oh, and I danced and danced.</div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div>Carlyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07418956848321901824noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15007060.post-10052969807394555682009-02-09T11:46:00.002-05:002009-02-09T11:56:25.560-05:00Where to BeginI can't even begin to describe the whirlwind that is my life---I can only say what has or will be happening recently.<div><br /></div><div>My cousin Meredith passed last week. She was 31 and passed on her daughter's 1st birthday. The funeral was yesterday---I flew to Minneapolis and back. I am so lucky to have such a supportive family and extended family. There were so many people from Youngstown there and I even had a high school friend on my flights. I'm realizing how fortunate I am to know the people I know and be from where I am from...</div><div><br /></div><div>The night before I left, I ended up having a slice of pie and relaxing at a local coffee shop, Roots Cafe. The owner Jayme and his wife are from Alabama and it reminds me of Brady's Cafe from college where the regulars leave their mugs there. I'm lucky to have picked a neighborhood that really feels like one. I'm getting to know all the shop keepers, grocers, bartenders, etc.</div><div><br /></div><div>On the plane home, it turned out that the two people in my row also lived in South Slope and so we shared a cab. Mr. Rad doesn't know how I do it, how I connect in this way. He thinks I should buy a lottery ticket. But I don't think I'm lucky in that way. </div><div><br /></div><div>Yesterday the rabbi spoke of cousin Meredith as being the same, a person who brings people together. Maybe that is our family. Maybe that is Youngstown, or Ohio. Maybe I'll never really know what that is, but whatever it is, it is good. Mere, Jules and I share the same Hebrew name, Raizel, after our great grandma and so maybe it is her spirit infused in us.</div><div><br /></div><div>Whatever it is, it is a blessing. One that I will carry with me as I bartend the two days I'm in town before AWP and while I'm at the conference and beyond.</div><div><br /></div><div>I'll be 30 on Sunday. I don't feel it yet. And I've decided to post pone big celebrations, I'm not ready yet. So in April I'll acknowledge it properly. But for now, we're almost 30 and we're a little quiet about it.</div>Carlyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07418956848321901824noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15007060.post-41336589980237890332009-02-02T13:24:00.002-05:002009-02-02T13:36:10.418-05:00dressing it up<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg5jiA6Rl25G1Xm1_ChjlzdLeVykaIIHLcfrSc-orRQ4Vn8LIx12HWs_r1-cPDJcbOv1irqYV-rTxePkzvc6fDCzKcY_wo0otuhi7X69S3MgT5hyphenhyphenw3J3Oz2cEzEdh2ZJ-bjEj59/s1600-h/birds+on+the+sofa.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg5jiA6Rl25G1Xm1_ChjlzdLeVykaIIHLcfrSc-orRQ4Vn8LIx12HWs_r1-cPDJcbOv1irqYV-rTxePkzvc6fDCzKcY_wo0otuhi7X69S3MgT5hyphenhyphenw3J3Oz2cEzEdh2ZJ-bjEj59/s400/birds+on+the+sofa.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5298268690729394530" /></a><br /><div>I've added a new color to the apt---this blue that is one of my favorites....more to come about decorating, but progress is happening as this place evolves into home and as I continue to learn about patience, decorating, budgeting (all the way TARGET!) and being more in tune with everything and not being so rigid and structured...</div><div><br /></div><div>and today, found a new yoga studio <a href="http://underminerva.com/">here in a gallery</a>. I was the only for who came to class so I felt like I had a private lesson in Anusara yoga. This type is all about the heart, which is something I think I need. Lots of heart opening and softening. I came home feeling changed and with deeper understanding of my own alignment issues, both mentally and physically.</div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div>Carlyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07418956848321901824noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15007060.post-61327386438506288492009-01-30T11:23:00.004-05:002009-01-30T11:38:14.127-05:00Alimentum and Mango Salmon<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgORCloH-GIocK1BjbOrs1sa_-JCBrly19Lqh4TnNYNz-6uLoyc0QdZDd5hI9J36zaVZoZiFccab92OHrvj1LkThtgdtj0GHXg18MWIMNJJ5-NuBMMAPUrtCf2RagcSYhNn0lp7/s1600-h/mango+salmon.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 300px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgORCloH-GIocK1BjbOrs1sa_-JCBrly19Lqh4TnNYNz-6uLoyc0QdZDd5hI9J36zaVZoZiFccab92OHrvj1LkThtgdtj0GHXg18MWIMNJJ5-NuBMMAPUrtCf2RagcSYhNn0lp7/s400/mango+salmon.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5297126752091487538" /></a><br />Alimentum is by far one of my favorite journals. Ever.<div><br /></div><div>Every time I go to a reading, I feel like I'm at a dinner party. I meet great people. Everyone really connects and has a good time. And they always have great wine and cheese.</div><div><br /></div><div>And Joshua from One Ring Zero inspired me to finally put my mango salmon recipe down. So for anyone who ever wondered how, email me and I will send you the recipe. For some reason, I haven't been able to cut and paste into the blogger format. But the photo is above so perhaps you can construct it from there :)</div><div><br /></div>Carlyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07418956848321901824noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15007060.post-24142812484159813982009-01-29T15:37:00.002-05:002009-01-29T15:44:50.712-05:00The Sunlightis why I got this apartment and it's streaming through the great room right now. For the first time, the apt. is as warm as I like it and I got to turn the heat down below 70 degrees! I spent the morning with pumpkin spice coffee and a banana blueberry smoothie---did some organizing---actually alphabetized by poetry and fiction books on the shelves. My grandparents called to check in and see how I was doing and it was lovely to sit on my love seat and chat late morning. Also got my first pieces of real mail (change of address form doesn't count) from mom and a university I applied to teach (the human resources survey) and so things are really beginning to settle in.<div><br /></div><div>Yesterday I met Mike, who works the night shift at the bodega down the street. His brother Manny works the morning and they carry vegetarian products. He looked down at my 3 cans of Amy's soup, my veggie burgers and fake chicken nuggets and pegged me as a vegan. Nope, vegetarian I smirked and he said to let him know if there was anything I needed, that if he didn't have it, he could order it. This has some serious Ramona potential. Speaking of, I'll be reading at the Mercantile Library tonight for the Alimentum Launch Party!</div><div><br /></div><div>And now as I'm sitting out here, I'm thinking of spring when I can grow my own vegetables right on the balcony---finally, Ramona can have her own garden!</div>Carlyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07418956848321901824noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15007060.post-59860035469827072462009-01-28T21:20:00.000-05:002009-01-28T21:21:14.937-05:00Come on by and see me<a href="http://www.mercantilelibrary.org/events/">here!</a> Thursday at 6:30!Carlyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07418956848321901824noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15007060.post-63587977264225739372009-01-27T14:47:00.003-05:002009-01-27T14:53:32.175-05:00Works in Progress<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhmYcTPwhpsp7fy5Z6Yp-X6PHv9-5smZGDuUfdFG4Y7pHTE_6Zs68aFbuN9f-KaRUWZo8V2BqDnV-H0IX8MJjEcItxgiEKgfUnXDsCFKOjKajqv8mdj88tudbikmILh7HpyR0I2/s1600-h/living+room.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhmYcTPwhpsp7fy5Z6Yp-X6PHv9-5smZGDuUfdFG4Y7pHTE_6Zs68aFbuN9f-KaRUWZo8V2BqDnV-H0IX8MJjEcItxgiEKgfUnXDsCFKOjKajqv8mdj88tudbikmILh7HpyR0I2/s400/living+room.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5296063957686474914" /></a><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiBwcD9V2aQWNJHY15ztbsn4rIWBv2J3LJ1Mla8CZcWvftaZlxYUg3iDX7862FVDNAv-6ywTIDHm29WJFz_ZKIqFpnIKbBrBElTE8vu0vOpIEZDC7qh_kVckZZNFe7-P63M42uN/s1600-h/roasted+red+pepper+pasta.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 300px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiBwcD9V2aQWNJHY15ztbsn4rIWBv2J3LJ1Mla8CZcWvftaZlxYUg3iDX7862FVDNAv-6ywTIDHm29WJFz_ZKIqFpnIKbBrBElTE8vu0vOpIEZDC7qh_kVckZZNFe7-P63M42uN/s400/roasted+red+pepper+pasta.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5296063703827659010" /></a><br />So far, the move is actually surprisingly easy. There are a few interesting things to report. All these windows make the place quite drafty in the winter...so the rush to hang curtains is a priority. Only problem, and this is a huge one---everything in this apartment is too tall. So I either have to get custom curtains or make my own. I have an interesting action plan to get something up which I will hopefully have an update on tomorrow..<div><br /></div><div>But for now, I bought myself a ladder and got some essentials so I could make my first meal, pictured above with my progress on the great room.</div><div><br /></div><div>All you do is saute garlic, red pepper flakes, spinach, salt, pepper in olive oil. Then toss with your choice of pasta (I used roasted red pepper) and top with parmesan cheese!</div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div>Carlyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07418956848321901824noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15007060.post-72794542630805991622009-01-20T13:21:00.002-05:002009-01-20T13:25:19.181-05:00A Walk in the Park<div><br /></div><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhr9JIqfJzP3XOJHmiFBQKQWkk_EObrMFQGWnrGw1bVyWIxmBykW_QUkkWns9D5mpGf44PwxMNLE22gYLVWXNjS7SWMP0oJOISz6IadimRXFXZQms5SANypvDkbtKQvyyM9Guy2/s1600-h/adam+and+carly+in+the+park+.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 300px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhr9JIqfJzP3XOJHmiFBQKQWkk_EObrMFQGWnrGw1bVyWIxmBykW_QUkkWns9D5mpGf44PwxMNLE22gYLVWXNjS7SWMP0oJOISz6IadimRXFXZQms5SANypvDkbtKQvyyM9Guy2/s400/adam+and+carly+in+the+park+.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5293442814965071938" /></a><br /><div>A photographer happened to be in the park taking pictures of the winter wonderland just around the time of a much needed walk and a chance to see some beauty. If you really listen, you can hear the sound snow makes as it lands.</div>Carlyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07418956848321901824noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15007060.post-19865390450939795942009-01-16T16:28:00.003-05:002009-01-16T16:36:45.351-05:00The Simple ThingsI had forgotten how good it was to take a bath (something you don't do with roommates)---I'm home in Ohio and I have had the house to myself today while Mom is at work.<div><br /></div><div>I'm still in my pajamas (clean ones, not last night's), and all I've done is work on writing projects, feed myself, and primp for the evening activities: family dinner at my favorite Youngstown Belmont Ave. restaurant: Antone's.</div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div>Carlyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07418956848321901824noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15007060.post-49239017463979819132009-01-11T09:11:00.002-05:002009-01-11T09:22:37.824-05:00Dreaming of Kettle BellsMy aunt sent me a great quote this morning: "It does not do well to dwell on dreams and forget to live." <div><br /></div><div>--J.K. Rowling </div><div><br /></div><div>Though I've never read any of her books (yet---for some reason I try to shy away from jumping on bandwagons), I really like this idea because I'm someone who tries really hard to construct perfection and ultimately, life never adheres to the dream world you create. I don't mean this in a negative way, but it's 2009 and I'm trying to think about how I can be living my life that makes me the most happy.</div><div><br /></div><div>I think too much. I live in my head. So in 2009 I'm moving in the direction of body. I'll be a certified yoga teacher in June! And the other day, one of my regulars at the bar gave me an awesome tip. Free kettle bell certification! I've never really worked out with those, but I do love weight lifting and so I think, yes, anything that can make me stronger is good...</div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div>Carlyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07418956848321901824noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15007060.post-11235506020790077712009-01-07T14:33:00.002-05:002009-01-07T14:36:24.042-05:00I am breathingIn case anyone was wondering about the quiet here---<div><br /></div><div>it's a new year and I will rededicate myself to the blog...</div><div><br /></div><div>I will have a new home at the end of the month (signed the lease today!!) so my focus in on the actual space, but then I will turn to the virtual.</div><div><br /></div><div>And in the meanwhile, breathe with me into this new year...</div>Carlyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07418956848321901824noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15007060.post-69430618641209822992008-12-28T21:40:00.003-05:002008-12-28T21:46:03.056-05:00Joy<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjlfzsPTnS5zBVnIihkM9DDKqO_JH83GMB94ypcKX8-8D3rjxZZpu-VWn18xl6yOkOPDpkafHIWPrCScVwE0MAU2N6ZQjIa41wb-TnwRwEWuqUocMMHW3h9uFIFXvvz2DQRt7SL/s1600-h/carly_icecream.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjlfzsPTnS5zBVnIihkM9DDKqO_JH83GMB94ypcKX8-8D3rjxZZpu-VWn18xl6yOkOPDpkafHIWPrCScVwE0MAU2N6ZQjIa41wb-TnwRwEWuqUocMMHW3h9uFIFXvvz2DQRt7SL/s400/carly_icecream.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5285037759720479250" /></a><br />A. sent me this---as things have been troublesome lately with worries about cousin Mere---but she's pulling through and giving us the sweet but tough as nails ladies in my family a good name. I've often thought that I come from a family of strong and wonderful women (and men too!), but now I'm sure of it. And grateful for everything I have---especially the people in my life. And ice cream outside on Christmas from <a href="http://www.chinatownicecreamfactory.com/node/10">The Chinatown Ice Cream shop</a>. Can't wait to try the wasabi!<div><br /></div><div><br /></div>Carlyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07418956848321901824noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15007060.post-70794867519204961172008-12-21T23:49:00.003-05:002008-12-21T23:53:04.423-05:00The Ghetto Menorah<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEihL0QFf0zlj-kER3DD7ghyphenhyphenAW7_ZSe3tM6MgVE7S-VH2E1MoWidEt4STedS51HDbQ-4yO_rON25LLErwApOfiSebIbOArQfztey3zH3xDBnfSTVxt0s6RUUfcZNuITND0VwNCpd/s1600-h/ghetto+menorah.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEihL0QFf0zlj-kER3DD7ghyphenhyphenAW7_ZSe3tM6MgVE7S-VH2E1MoWidEt4STedS51HDbQ-4yO_rON25LLErwApOfiSebIbOArQfztey3zH3xDBnfSTVxt0s6RUUfcZNuITND0VwNCpd/s400/ghetto+menorah.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5282472930661870946" /></a>Carlyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07418956848321901824noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15007060.post-28008072721135070362008-12-21T23:13:00.006-05:002008-12-21T23:48:27.454-05:00The Earth Room in The City and The Ghetto Menorah<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg14yA6eWsIHva3J3QvgeeHBpmJ1o-n6f503YYQaNJCIT-lYbUPMu8M8tMDnrcNl4nk_7S5Xo71DBaSMcJr9K1NAwPFfgeKAqY3hQHwz-ZvdYzUQWfXx2NE1fajDP-XGpt2kq-K/s1600-h/room+of+earth.jpg"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 300px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg14yA6eWsIHva3J3QvgeeHBpmJ1o-n6f503YYQaNJCIT-lYbUPMu8M8tMDnrcNl4nk_7S5Xo71DBaSMcJr9K1NAwPFfgeKAqY3hQHwz-ZvdYzUQWfXx2NE1fajDP-XGpt2kq-K/s400/room+of+earth.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5282463284049184050" /></a>S and F were in back in town and took A and I on a whirlwind winter gallery tour---this one being my favorite. <a href="http://www.earthroom.org/">A room full of earth</a>. You have to be buzzed in and then go up to the second floor and get to peek in (but not touch)---the same person has been raking it since it opened in the 70's. There was something about the smell--murky and whole---the same effect as being outside and hiking. But here were were, huddled together in a Soho building and sharing memories of being outside. It's funny how much this one installation brought us all together, after not seeing each other in so long, we all spend the day walking around and looking at art, but we don't really talk until we're in a room full of earth. And perhaps this is the point of what an installation is all about. To bring people together. To think and reflect, to create a new sense of space, not just physical, but a plane of memory and imagination.<div><br /></div><div>They also introduced us to a new bakery on Sullivan Street, which used to be called Sullivan Street bakery, but then the couple that owned it divorced and this is hers---I think it has the name of a flower now--he got the name and she has the recipes. I think that also happened to Little Red Hen/ Lady Bird (home of my favorite muffins and scones). </div><div><br /></div><div>A and I got to revisit the neighborhood of our first date and have an espresso and pastry with S and F before they did their own going back to favorite places. </div><div><br /></div><div>And all of this gets me nostalgic---though it could be this time of year, but thinking about all the rad dates (boating in the park/RAD date/classy bastard date) and the thoughtful gifts---notes at the bar, the eggling when I was blue, the Junior's cheesecake when I got poems published in Alimentum, I'm realizing what it's like to date someone who gets you in that little way to be gotten. Or maybe it's the beginning where everything we create is good. Or maybe it's about the creation of it. Of going in as partners. Of really trying to get each other.</div><div><br /></div><div>Tonight, he put on his kippah (that he packed in his bag) before we said the blessings and he helped me construct the ghetto menorah. Shamas, totally his doing. But he makes what I do, better. </div>Carlyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07418956848321901824noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15007060.post-74288132245802565982008-12-14T21:55:00.001-05:002008-12-14T21:56:32.167-05:00AlimentumThe <a href="http://www.alimentumjournal.com/issues.html">new issue</a> has arrived and I'm waiting for it to arrive!!!Carlyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07418956848321901824noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15007060.post-76176558419208450532008-12-07T10:46:00.004-05:002008-12-07T11:45:17.125-05:00Facing Out<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhYcFZmZrlgCqckwJ6QVBvpdSv5QS9z5BIoRsLZhrf2ytt6pTL3I21xbKuz7O2Gct4IF_zHjuXkvSj5RBOBjNZ1teSe9OyWrzWW14lW9ZbrGPFOyMxk5UnX4YeqgZZ4Jz8pO9gm/s1600-h/carly_DCbook01.jpg"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhYcFZmZrlgCqckwJ6QVBvpdSv5QS9z5BIoRsLZhrf2ytt6pTL3I21xbKuz7O2Gct4IF_zHjuXkvSj5RBOBjNZ1teSe9OyWrzWW14lW9ZbrGPFOyMxk5UnX4YeqgZZ4Jz8pO9gm/s400/carly_DCbook01.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5277080326508654578" /></a>Yes, that's Barak O'Bama's head peeking out from behind my book. I was so excited to see it (in front of his!) at Busboys in DC for the reading. I'm sure by now it's shoved in the stacks somewhere but for one day, to have your book facing you, I can't begin to say how cool it is. And to have this picture of that moment makes me giddy (thanks to my rad camera happy fella)! <div><br /></div><div>It's a weird thing being a poet---when asked at the bar, if I have books and then say two, my customers are like, whoa, what are they about?</div><div><br /></div><div>But then when they ask if they'll see them in bookstores, you feel like the 3rd string quarterback, just throwing footballs in some bull pen, knowing not many will know your arm. So I've been thinking, why do we do it? </div><div><br /></div><div>When I thumb through <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic;">the why and later</span>, I know why, because there are poems that need to be written, poems that spiral in the air knowing they will hit their mark. Even if it's just one person meeting herself on the page.</div>Carlyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07418956848321901824noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15007060.post-48608056585752111832008-12-04T14:44:00.001-05:002008-12-04T14:49:27.946-05:00I've been on the road...<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh6XEzFRCUtWRTp6wsR2BZ7z58DPqOz5Zi7PKURZ32nTp8bLuA5lXQ32gSOvUbi-JP7rgp5cxm_6Irao8vdTbCwrHjlZ-nWqMJ9U6ZMV7k4xhlLQNGe9rY1i2oOH2Xs9-0NOtPO/s1600-h/carly_DCstreet01.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 300px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh6XEzFRCUtWRTp6wsR2BZ7z58DPqOz5Zi7PKURZ32nTp8bLuA5lXQ32gSOvUbi-JP7rgp5cxm_6Irao8vdTbCwrHjlZ-nWqMJ9U6ZMV7k4xhlLQNGe9rY1i2oOH2Xs9-0NOtPO/s400/carly_DCstreet01.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5276024128410845138" /></a><br /><div>more blogging to come, but here's me with my head in the clouds as usual...</div>Carlyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07418956848321901824noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15007060.post-55082277616719947952008-11-23T23:08:00.007-05:002008-11-23T23:32:33.999-05:00it's OK :)<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgbBOCb39tRw2CCoKb9saJPBUm11PhyYcMW9goiFejUWEBRzaNfarnWCNjQZtArGkbjCNcreqBKv9Yo3e96T3ak4YuiOEWtD8VTBTIEYJynQA7SM6GDJJh7l7IZNjUxfOMSYlg4/s1600-h/oklahoma+u.jpg"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 300px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgbBOCb39tRw2CCoKb9saJPBUm11PhyYcMW9goiFejUWEBRzaNfarnWCNjQZtArGkbjCNcreqBKv9Yo3e96T3ak4YuiOEWtD8VTBTIEYJynQA7SM6GDJJh7l7IZNjUxfOMSYlg4/s400/oklahoma+u.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5272072565294321682" /></a><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg23DR0tFJqKiqlATkm-0st-pSjGKKow57rhykdSjRH_pJfYiBWoLug5hb2Fo-Lrsid5e9mgxM57f2kxCcJts-vaW7QTsFVV0F9FYxekUSkvuRqGsEgaeq24agvpWPCO2wJNcgX/s1600-h/oklahoma+u.jpg"><br /></a><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgk1_o5ukPuKHuKhs91DtnA-dNocu81dHp6f2iTKu9Fe5_xSCyh2psVTftHynUAK-LVN-6NzaE_KHlTstk751eFP2V9KpfPZnpCJHwhMVuqW-XAWBrlCgDWAnIgT5HWj-F50lDO/s1600-h/oklahoma+city+memorial.jpg"><br /></a><br /><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div>This was the sign that greeted me at the Oklahoma City Airport---I was impressed and nervous. I hadn't seen Jeremy in over 10 years and I was giving a reading at his Hillel. And it was the first time I was staying with a shomer shabbos family.</div><div><br /></div><div>I wanted to give a good impression on all levels---as a poet and as a Jew. It's still difficult for me to see myself as the poet that I am...I still feel quite youthful and in the more I'm becoming stage than the I am stage. What I'm learning is that there are levels and I need to step up my own perception of myself to where everyone else sees me.</div><div><br /></div><div>The reading went really well. I was very impressed with the planning and the diversity---community members, students, professors all came to Hillel for the 70th Kristallnacht commemoration. There was an amazing dinner before at Hillel---salmon, cous cous, and asparagus and the hospitality reminded me of Ohio. Or maybe that this is the way it is in a university town. And it made me want to be a professor more than I ever wanted to before. Spending the afternoon on Saturday with Honi solidified that. And hopefully, this will happen Sooner (get it?!) rather than later.</div><div><br /></div><div>I'm exhausted and have lots more to say, but for now, know that everything is OK, in fact more than OK!</div>Carlyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07418956848321901824noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15007060.post-89818140673139164762008-11-17T12:15:00.003-05:002008-11-17T12:38:25.643-05:00I Heart Cupcakes<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi5GS3nHb0kemNG8OWqijTI8w9NUE1aYKoEdWG5F1oNb-c8ssW1eolmqYr3QX7mbpRySyaMdarLUJYqdoNIEvTOUUPNwSx3FoRpEIyLdXXnEcS0uSuFcZZuxCsy9FMQwE-Ohsfc/s1600-h/carly+babycakes.jpg"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 300px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi5GS3nHb0kemNG8OWqijTI8w9NUE1aYKoEdWG5F1oNb-c8ssW1eolmqYr3QX7mbpRySyaMdarLUJYqdoNIEvTOUUPNwSx3FoRpEIyLdXXnEcS0uSuFcZZuxCsy9FMQwE-Ohsfc/s400/carly+babycakes.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5269681746844878402" /></a><br />as you can tell from the photo! This one is from <a href="http://www.babycakesnyc.com/">Babycakes</a>, a vegan bakery---yes, it's true, anything can be had at any time in New York---which is part of the magic and energy of this city.<div><br /></div><div>The staff there is wonderful---since we (Mr. Rad who planned another rad night of mexican food with a bakery down the street, that I could see from the window so I knew something good was coming) were first time visitors, we got free cupcake tops (yes, you can technically buy half a cupcake!). Since I was able to sample 3 (the one I purchased---red velvet, plus the tops, chocolate and banana), I can say, the baking is solid, but some are definitely better---the red velvet and the carrot (which came from the free box they gave me as I was leaving!). So really, I got like 8 cupcakes for the price of one.</div><div><br /></div><div>And they're kosher, so the box came with me to Drisha the next day (seemed like a much better place than for the roommates)---and then I had to call the bakery back to see who did the kosher certification and they gave me the number for their rabbi, who when I called him said he's the vegan rabbi and does the kosher certification for most vegan places in the city (including Blossom cafe) and he spent about 20 minutes on the phone talking with me about vegetarianism and kashrut--even told me to call him any time I have any questions about kashrut or anything else. </div><div><br /></div><div>Which is one of the reasons why I heart this city---the adventures that one can have on a seemingly ordinary Wednesday night. </div><div><br /></div><div> </div>Carlyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07418956848321901824noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15007060.post-40028758784241976472008-11-09T10:57:00.007-05:002008-11-09T19:48:05.722-05:00A Totally RAD Day<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiyn7qzKVTGypr1MVGoGB8cKGU7BBiySNoWCDU_nO1qmnV9ytiMumjCY31IvYW1bSuIsktFo4E8AuAJc0d-RIens1Kw0_U-RbVF3JtYmTetSBOKApQuR0yCBqMsMFf8YTge3nzx/s1600-h/carly_soju02.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiyn7qzKVTGypr1MVGoGB8cKGU7BBiySNoWCDU_nO1qmnV9ytiMumjCY31IvYW1bSuIsktFo4E8AuAJc0d-RIens1Kw0_U-RbVF3JtYmTetSBOKApQuR0yCBqMsMFf8YTge3nzx/s400/carly_soju02.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5266824103418677090" /></a><br />Everyone needs a RAD day. And Someone to make it happen. On Friday, it happened to me. A mystery subway ride into the city. Madison Park! Home of SHAKE SHACK! I love how New York is so veggie friendly. I had the 'shroom burger. Meat can kiss my fanny. This was better than a burger, though Mr. Rad was digging his no doubt. There were leaves falling and chipmunks and birds. And somehow, burgers and (not) made me swoon a little...<div><br /></div><div>and then arm in arm we strolled to the <a href="http://www.museumofsex.com/">museum of sex</a>. No joke. There's a museum for everything. And while the animal exhibit was the most fascinating (homesexual penguin and monkey behaviors, reversing gender roles, panda porn), overall, there could have been much more done with human sexuality. Especially in ancient traditions---there's so much on sexual behavior in the Torah alone. But how could you not have fun at a place called the museum of sex?</div><div><br /></div><div>And even more uptown we went to my favorite Japanese bookstore and cafe for some tea. And after finishing the tea, he pointed down from the windows overlooking Bryant Park, to the Pond! Ice Skating!</div><div><br /></div><div>And after that, who doesn't want a taste of summer---drinking Soju from half a watermellow. We ladeled it out like soup in our tin bowls. It was a two handed affair. </div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div>Carlyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07418956848321901824noreply@blogger.com2